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She loves black love and loves mangoes, cats, reading, cooking and writing about some of the challenges and joys of black lesbian relationships. We can date who we want. I blur the lines a lot. I used to be one of those judgemental people who would take a step back seeing two studs. But I realize young, love is love. What I like is not necessarily what other people like for a partner. I learned mind your business. It was the same discrimination, I received from heterosexual males being an aggressive femme.
They would say to me and my partner how about a threesome because we are femme. I was ignorant and I woke up. I hope people would wake up.
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